Originally Posted by jo71
---- but my belief is that we are going through this for a very important reason. Whether it works out or not with our husbands, this experience is happening to teach us something so that we will be able to use what we've learned in the future. ---
I've just read a book called The Celestine Prophecy which essentailly has exactly this message. From my own perspective, I can honestly say I've learned a massive amount about "me", my hopes, expectations and approiaches to relationships. The lesson has been challenging, and painful. But necessary.
Keep strong - be positive - always envisage what you hope for and want, and it has a greater chance of happening than if you focus on negatives.
Proof? Well, since I discovered the power of "manifesting waht I want", I can (beleive it or not) find a parking space when I need it! Daft I know, but it's about 90% successful, and the town is a busy wee town!
I've yet to manisfest a job, but I'm working on it! Manifesting a meaningful relationship with my ex is still ongoing, but I have to say that I'm actually beginning to find myself not necessarily believing that is the right thing, unless we are able to bring some real changes into the connection.
I have however found that as my outlook changes, my positivity has produced developments within what may always be a platonic relationship with a long-term friend which is proving enjoyable and worthwhile for both of us.
It DOES get better - Mike.