marriage falling apart
I have been married for almost 14yrs. My husband and I have both been married before. We have children from the ages of 22,19,17,16 and 12. About three years ago on July 4th we had some devastating things happen in our lives. First we lost our house and everything in it in a flood. Then about a month later my husband was coming home late at night and hit and killed a man on a bicycle.
He was found not gulity but, has been living with the guilt of this every since then. At the time he did not want to talk with a counselor and only wanted to talk with me. I tried my best but didnt really know how to get him through this. We did pray about this also. But, every since then he has changed completly. I do not think he has gotten over this. We used to argue before but we always seemed to work things out. Every since then I feel like he doesnt really like himself, therfore it shows in every aspect of his life. There has been some things that have happen that i am having a hard time forgiving him for. I used to want to do everything i could to keep my marriage together but, her lately i am feeling very numb.