Re: I NEED Some Advice????
Well, he doesn't want to go, but you can go to counselling. You don't need to tell him either. They will give you an idea why you both have unresolved issues and how to handle them. You haven't lost hope yet, that is why you are here. There's no quick fix, it will take time and effort. With some coaxing, maybe, just maybe he will go to counselling. I think he may feel that it's like an intervention or he doesn't like being all exposed and vulnerable. Good Luck to You.