Re: To hold on or not?
i am in completely the same situation, my wife says she doesn't know if she loves me and is unsure if she wants to give our marriage a chance!! i too feel like i'm being left hanging on waiting. i have come to the decision wether rightly or wrongly that she knows how i feel, and i am leaving the rest to her. its her choice, i am moving forward with my life and i'm sorry to say that if on the way i meet someone else then i do. someone keeping you holding on is mental torture i have become ill through it and my doctor is considering refering me to a shrink, if this happens i could lose my son, and that is not an option for me. I URGE EVERYONE MOVE FORWARD AS IF ITS OVER, THEN IF IT IS YOU HAVEN'T WASTED YOUR TIME WAITING DOING NOTHING! and maybe if our husbands and wifes see that we don't really need them they might start to think more serioulsy about the situation at hand. BE STRONG FOR YOURSELF, YOU WILL BE A BETTER PERSON FOR IT!
willmetts
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