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Old 22nd July 2014, 02:57 AM   #1
Sarah2014
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Please help

Hi, I've been married now since December last year, not long at all. I have 2 children from a previous relationship and my husband has 2 children also from a previous relationship.
For around 3-4 months now, my husband seems to have lost interest in anything to do with me, he doesn't want to go anywhere with me, he isn't affectionate towards me and he doesn't want sex with me. Before this he was very tactile toward me and always wanted to be in my company.
We were trying for a baby together, unfortunately it didn't happen and his attitude towards having a baby together has changed from desperate for one with me to not being bothered as we both have children already but not together.
I don't know if my marriage is dying or what I can do to get our relationship back on track. He says I'm being silly and tells me he loves me but his behaviour towards me says differently.
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Old 22nd July 2014, 08:16 AM   #2
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Re: Please help

There's not much to go on Sarah although it is obvious that something is wrong.

It sounds to me like his interest has gone elsewhere. How do we know what that could be? Could there be someone else? Or maybe it could be pornography or something. That kind of thing can have the same effect.

Other than that he may not be up to marriage. What happened in his last marriage? It does seem pretty early for things to cool off. Maybe he just needs to work on his marriage. It generally works when both our working on it.
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Old 24th August 2014, 04:20 AM   #3
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Re: Please help

Sarah, have you guys sat down to discuss this issue? What is it like communicating with each other?
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Old 24th August 2014, 09:18 AM   #4
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Could he be feeling a bit of insecurity due to the lack of being able to create a baby?
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