Re: Wife Choosing Her Family Over Me
Did you know before you married that she wasnt going to work? Did you know that she didnt want children? Did you know that she was going to spend so much time over there?
IT sounds as if her parents are still pretty young and capable, both working full time. What are they, in their 60's? They may not need that sort of help for another 15-20 years and they do have another daughter if that is the case. I am also concerned that she puts them first before you, and also that they criticize you and that she sides with them. That is very wrong, she does need to cut those emotional ties and cleave to you. It sounds as if her family are rather dysfunctional. They should be be telling her to be with you not them.
I agree that some good marriage counseling is needed. In laws issues can be very damaging for a marriage.
My husband is Australian by the way, I am British, and he only went back there twice in 17 years, and his mum came over twice in that time. My step son now lives in OZ and he only comes back every couple of years for 2 or 3 weeks. Her constant trips are excessive.
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