Re: ex-wife's BF smacking my kids! So upset and angry
Hi Cabbage,
Thanks for coming back and keeping us updated.
Good that this no good guy is out of the picture. Not surprising she has another bf - she's a lost soul.
Sounds like you have done a thoroughly professional job all round with handling custody and finances, well done.
I'm not too sure about all the figures but I think you are right in that you need to think long term.
What your ex does now is down to her. Chances are she probably will loose the house or just keep topping the mortgage up because she is a loose canon. That's out of your control now, you just need to think about yourself and the kiddies and how you are with them. Hopefully you and your ex can learn to work together as allies.
I know how you feel about the shock thing - I really do....
You have a strong mind and spirit and you absolutely will re-build, i'm sure of that
All the best!
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