Re: Unwanted Separation
Hi, You are not rambling, you just seem confused by irrational behaviour. It seems strange.
You say that he swears there is no one else and I don't believe him either. I'll give you the first thought that comes to my mind.
Has he maybe confused infatuation with love. When we are infatuated we have that intense buzz, but we can't live like that all our lives so sooner or later that infatuation is gone. Love grows and develops during our bonding under infatuation.
Infatuation is intense, but superficial. Then after the infatuation has dampened we are left with a deeper emotion, which is true love.
If he met someone and has fallen in lust, not love, he might have felt something he felt with you in the beginning of your relationship. He then thinks he doesn't love you any more, while he is really confused.
He sounds confused. Not prepared to consider counselling is strange.
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