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Old 16th October 2014, 09:23 PM   #1
MrsD
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PMT anger issues v's husband calling a prostitute...help!

Ok so I am ashamed to admit I have a temper/anger problem towards my husband when I am due on! I have thrown things at him, pushed him, threatened him and told him I don't love him. At the time I mean it but calm down afterward and I'm fine with him. It's no excuse but he winds me up, he has serious OCD issues and picks at the littlest things even me sneezing!! He hates me talking to or seeing my family (I see them everyday) and he can be extremely controlling which I know I have allowed over the 12 years we have been together.

However I found out yesterday that he looked up/searched for a prostitue and phoned her! He says she didn't answer and he was never going to follow it through so it shouldn't matter but at the same time blames me for it due to what I do to him. He says he's in a marriage but is lonely!! He sleeps on the sofa and has done for well over a year (his choice). This is not the first time he has done this the first was 3 years ago and again a year after that! Previously he was txting them asking if they were available and one txt was telling her what to wear?? He has denied ever going to or sleeping with a prostitute.

I don't know what to think! Help me please, do I deserve it?
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Old 16th October 2014, 10:18 PM   #2
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Re: PMT anger issues v's husband calling a prostitute...help!

No you don't deserve it he is a filthy example of mankind for doing that, if you have problems sort them as human beings best you can do not resort to the base filth of cohorting with strumpets, tarts , whores , and brasses.
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Old 16th October 2014, 10:45 PM   #3
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Re: PMT anger issues v's husband calling a prostitute...help!

It sounds as if you both have many issues that need sorting out and I suggest that you go to a marriage counselor together. I would also suggest that you havent actually left your family emotionally and cleaved to your husband(your new family) if you see them every day. Its very excessive and I do know that this can cause problems in many marriages. Try and compromise, and see them maybe once a week. Even that is far more than most wider families see each other.
I would NOT be happy if my husband threw things at me, pushed me and said he didnt love me, and I think your actions may have pushed him away emotionally. Get some proper help together, and also go to the doctors as tell him that the PMT is making you violent.
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