Re: I had a child out of my marriage.
Does you wife know about all the affairs?Have you told her everything now?
What does she want you to do about the child?
Is she still with with you and is she intending to stay with you??
As for the other child, you are half responsible for that child, and you should be the best dad you can to him as to all of your children. You can surely see the poor kid, have him some weekends, and make sure that you pay maintenance towards his upkeep. Its all part of the consequences of what you did, and its not his fault. How must he feel that his dad doesnt want to see him??Poor little thing. He is as much your child as the other 5, and needs you there for him on a regular basis. All of the children need to know they have a sibling/siblings and you need to tell them all about what you did. You dont need much contact with the mother, you can have him at you house or take him out.
No its not easy, but thats why we are told to be faithful, because the consequences are messy.
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