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Old 29th April 2016, 11:20 AM   #16
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Re: Husband watches porn

I think so too. A lot will depend on his attitude over the coming weeks. I am just praying that he will see the light, but even that is no guarantee that he will do the right thing, but I hope he does.
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Old 15th May 2016, 09:19 AM   #17
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Re: Husband watches porn

Hello,
I hope that you are making some progress. I read through the thread and half way through wanted to say "bash up the parental controls on your internet service" when another wise person suggested it !! Sometimes if you take away the sweeties and make it hard to be tempted by them then it stops becoming the norm to eat them. Finally and please excuse me if this has been asked have you found out for sure why he uses pornography? Does he realise its not what people actually do in real life.
Once again I wish you all the best. Happy Summer..

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Old 15th May 2016, 11:37 AM   #18
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We have been married 28 years. Mostly good years. We have 2 adult kids who are independent college grads. We both work full time. Our house is paid for. Not wealthy but comfortable. Several years ago my husband was caught with porn on his work computer. Very embarrassing for both of us. I work there too. He quit and took a sales job with another company. Swore he'd never view porn again. My self esteem was shattered. It took months of counseling for me to forgive and for us to be close again. Just found out he is at it again. I told him the last time that I couldn't go through that again. Don't know what to do now. Thought we had a great marriage. We go out a lot, have lots of friends, take nice vacations. Sex was good, I thought. But I'm in my 50s. I can't compete with those women on the screen. He swears again that he won't do it any more. Says he's sorry. Says he doesn't know why he's does it. Says it is not about me. I don't know if I could ever trust him again. Don't know what to do.
Watching such filth is disgusting, disrespectful, and for a grown man very juvenile, it also perpetuates possible sexual exploitation of some of those involved, just the thought of it turns my stomach, sorry to be so direct but it's honestly how I feel, good luck you deserve much better.
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