Shes living in her uncles other house. An old antie stays there with her. Not sure if she is paying or not. She cant be right now because she has no money. Unless she sells the engagment ring i bought here 2500. I doubt she would do that tho. But i thought i knew her i thought this would never happen. And its happened. She could get a council house and with having tue little one and her job still be able to survive yes im sure. Her mother watches the wee guy when shes at work two days then my mother or my sister the other day. She only works three days a week.
Whenever i talk about things it stresses her out. Says shes starting to resent me for it.
I wasnt going to come back onto the site but im either not understanding what shes telling me or im not getting the right answers?
I am doing the right thing trying to save a marrage amnt i?
Tinight was better im still hurting but im trying to keep it deep down and not show it now. Just trying to be normal with her. If she can see the true me that she fell in love with and block out the bad things then maybe she will change her mind. I cant see that she will tho. .
Id love to ask her to come to some kind of couciling even as a seperated couple to see what the faults really were or to see if itll help with whats in uer head but i dont think she would agree to it.
Im in touch with her other mate that she is going to visit this weekend and is also a mate of mine just maybe not as close . She tells me to try accept it and she thinks her minds made up but cant say for sure cos she hasnt seen her and stuff. Dont know what to thjnk right now.
Just cant understand why she cant try to save this. Its killing me that i cant try to fix it and im also missing out on my sons life. Even tho she says im not and not to be bringing him into it.