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Old 14th May 2009, 11:15 PM   #1
sosadithurts
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don't know what to do

I am 30 years old I have a 2 yr old and am 16 weeks pregnant. I found out that during a time in my husband and I's relationship (before we were married) when we were living together he had an affair with a girl he worked with. She recently sent an email to him saying she wanted money back that she lent him years ago....she also said she learned her lesson she should never lend money to someone she was just F*@kin . Now he will not come clean with this affair. I don't know how to let go of this and move on?
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Old 15th May 2009, 09:07 AM   #2
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Re: don't know what to do

You can't move on ssih if he doesn't come clean. It is a grey area if you wasn't married at the time but it was still a betrayal in the situation you were in. There should be some acknowledgment that it was wrong and even repentance over it. If he thinks there is nothing wrong in sleeping with another there is a problem obviously. If he is trying to cover it up then there is a dishonesty there. If you know the facts why is he denying it?

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Old 20th May 2009, 09:37 AM   #3
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Re: don't know what to do

What raymond said
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Love is never wanting to lose faith, never wanting to give up, and never truly moving on. Love is knowing and praying in the deepest part of what's left of your heart that the other feels the same.
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