Thanks for the advice re the children Georgie. I can deal with cheats all day long but being separated from my girls isn’t a strong suit of mine even after all this time. I’m used to it but I’m still mad about it. I always tell them I love them and they know I get over to visit as much as I can afford to (about once every 3 weeks). They are in absolutely no doubt that their dad loves them.
It really does concern me that my ex has put in almost 7 years of leg work and still got nothing tangible to show for it. She’ll be desperate for the house to get her claws in properly. The next step is marriage and then she’s got him by the danglies. I suppose which way it goes will all come down to how selfish or dumb he is.
I don’t like him around my girls but I honestly think they’re better off if he’s genuine
and sticks around so fingers crossed that he’s dumb.
Thanks again x