Husband has left!

[Raymond]

As 1okgal said on the other thread it takes a lot of character to maintain a marriage and some do not have that. I just wonder if he has what it takes. I hope I am wrong. There is nothing more you can do as far as I can see except to make a life for yourself. Begging him is not producing anything. Sometimes getting on with your life and showing independence does. Men like to chase and hunt and that will not happen if you are always there for him. There are no guarantees as he may not have what it takes but either way I think you ought to try and not rely on him.