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Old 15th March 2016, 12:18 AM   #1
vicky8184
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Unhappy advice on my marriage and what behaviour is acceptable

Hi there I was looking for advice in my marriage my husband is 50 and im 32 woven been together nearly 5 years we lived in spain for abit and moved back home so I could go back to uni we started having problems and he got a house again in spain he has a huge drink problem and tends to be soft in bars especially when it comes to letting anyone stay in his house for free it's something he always done before he met me but I've just discovered he back to that and now has a 28 year old living in his house when he is at work for 6 weeks....I'm am livid about this as we just started to work on our marriage and its all fallen apart again through this we've just argued for days and to make it worse she told him I threatened her which I have proof I really didn't but he defended her I know there's nothing between them but she is posting photos online with her bras lying all over the house and her and friends ready to party im not coping with this and huge part of me wants a divorce like yesterday am i over reacting?????
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Old 15th March 2016, 12:21 AM   #2
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Re: advice on my marriage and what behaviour is acceptable

Meant to also mention all I get from him is I seriously don't see what im doing wrong
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Old 15th March 2016, 11:55 AM   #3
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Re: advice on my marriage and what behaviour is acceptable

Bringing another woman into the house to live for free without consulting you shows inconsideration to his wife. If he doesn't see that he doesn't understand marriage. Also the type of woman she is is exactly the type you don't want in your house if you are married. Your marital relationship leaves a lot to be desired I think. It could be that the drink is affecting him but it does make me question why you married him.
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Old 15th March 2016, 12:23 PM   #4
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So he is living in spain with a 28 year old, and you are living in another country? That is totally inappropriate and dangerous. Even if you were also there it would be wrong but when its just the 2 of them its crazy. You have no idea what is going on between them, after all he clearly goes after much younger women as he has with you.
I think you need some good marriage counselling, and he needs to stop acting as if he is still single. Has he been married before?
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Old 15th March 2016, 06:05 PM   #5
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My advice is to go to Spain and talk to your husband. You wont know what is going on unless you are there. You are the wife, and you need to start acting like it!!
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