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Old 29th April 2016, 01:30 PM   #1
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Erectile Dysfunction Meds - I Don't Want My Wife to Know

I have been taking impotence medications for almost a year now. I usually get my medications from a pharmacy in our area. Don't get me wrong, I have been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction by my doctor, and he has prescribed me with the said medications. However, it is very difficult for me to tell my wife. I do not want her to be disappointed with me.
I recently learned from a friend that he has his medications for erectile dysfunction from an online pharmacy, treated(dot)com. Apparently, the medications are discreetly packaged. Aside from that, they also have cheaper prices. I was in doubt at first, because it may not be genuine. But I found out that the said online pharmacy is trusted by many because of the quality of the products.
I want to be all honest with my wife, but I don't know how to tell her. My medications are working, so far, and she is not noticing any difference. Any suggestions on how I should tell my wife?

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Old 29th April 2016, 07:02 PM   #2
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I think its pretty sad that you felt you have had to keep it from her. Are you worried as to how she will react?

Presumably she knew that you had ED before, so how has she not noticed any difference?

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Old 30th April 2016, 08:08 AM   #3
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Re: Erectile Dysfunction Meds - I Don't Want My Wife to Know

I think it is better to be open with her. If you say she is not noticing any difference it's not going to change things much. A good time to tell her I think and then you will be working on it together.
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Old 1st May 2016, 11:30 AM   #4
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Agree. Over time, if yours is a typical case, the ED will get worse, and eventually to the point where Viagra is ineffective. Your wife may feel betrayed if you have kept the drugs a secret.

In a certain way, I think it is a betrayal. ED is a warning sign of impending heart disease, not something we should keep secrets from our wives about.

ED is a physical disease like cancer, diabetes (I assume you've been tested, ED is part of diabetes syndrome), or dementia. The biggest, strongest, most manly men
get these diseases. Medications can help, and no one is "less of a man" because he takes them.

There's nothing inherently wrong with online pharmacy. Online stores can be operated at a lower overhead than brick-and-mortar stores, hence, lower prices. It is
wise to be careful, though, there are some scams.

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Old 3rd May 2016, 11:48 AM   #5
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I haven't heard all these horrible connections before. I hope you are not unecessarily being alarmist. Whilst these things can cause ED it doesn't mean that ED leads to them. Sometimes it is just part of growing old and can mean that the way one performs sex changes. The desire for sex does not go away, even though the way you experience it might change.
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I haven't heard all these horrible connections before. I hope you are not unecessarily being alarmist. Whilst these things can cause ED it doesn't mean that ED leads to them. Sometimes it is just part of growing old and can mean that the way one performs sex changes. The desire for sex does not go away, even though the way you experience it might change.
Yes, its normal for mens testosterone levels to drop as they age.
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