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Old 18th August 2015, 12:19 AM   #1
sad and lonely
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separation and getting back together

I was with my husband for 14 years 11 of them married. After a rough time with his bipolar and moods etc I told him to go 4 months ago.
We were seeing each other on and off during that time and I really missed him and love him.

Now he is saying no and he doesn't know what he feels or thinks. I so want to be with him again, I love him dearly and the time apart has made my love so much more.
I am in bits at the moment, trying to get him back and tell him how much I still love him and want him.

It hurts that he is pushing me away and I am trying so hard to find a little thread from him to help me.

I cry everyday and sit and sulk not taking in what is around me.

I speak nicely to him then we have a time where we hurt each other with words.

His father so hopes we can work this out and still see me as their daughter in law and said if I need to talk they are there. I don't get the same feeling from his mum but then my ex is a bit of a mummies boy and will make her believe his side is gospel.

I have told his dad I so want his son back, I had so many aims and plans that they are no more. But still so wanted.
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Old 19th August 2015, 01:50 AM   #2
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Re: separation and getting back together

I think that all you can do is wait and see to be honest.
There was a reason you separated, and you may have forgotten how hard it was togather.

Get on with you life and dont sit around crying, that isnt going to help, and if you believe in God, pray.
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Old 20th August 2015, 06:05 AM   #3
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Could you ask him if he would see a marriage counselor with you?
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Old 6th November 2015, 05:35 AM   #4
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Re: separation and getting back together

If it is meant to be it will happen. All you can do is continue to better yourself and make the positive decisions in life.
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Old 17th December 2015, 03:12 PM   #5
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If you were meant to be, in the end you will be together. Pray and ask God's guidance and ask for courage and strength so you can move on with your life.
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