Re: I thought I was In Love Once Upon A Time
Is going back EVER a good idea?
In my current situation I am thinking about a particular lady who I dated for nearly a year and had a near 'perfect' relationship with. Tall, slim, blonde, pretty and, above all else, a nice person.
Should I think about trying to contact her after 5/6 years?
Probably not.
I can fairly easily make contact with her family, who were also great, and they would be able to give me the low down on her current personal situation.
It would be so easy.
I really don't think it is ever a good idea to think about past relationships, especially in your position. You are married and chose to marry your wife.
Don't lose the focus and meaning of marriage. It is not just about you or your wife, it is about both of you, as a union.
So many people treat marriage as a disposable asset. Willing to let it go cheaply with little thought of the vows that have been taken and promised.
What happened in the past has happened you have a chance, an opportunity to build a happy life, a happy marriage. Concentrate on that and forget the past.
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