Re: Husband has been internet cheating please help
HiH I went through the same thing with my Ex after 16 years together 14 married, 3 kids, a home, and our friendship of 20 years. Things id not work out for her an I because she had left me emotionally years ago when she first started the internet affairs. I fought long and hard, took more for the family then she deserved. Our kid needed us both in their lives and I thought I needed her in mine to keep the family together and happy.
Today I look back at my former marriage and I can say without a doubt for me anyways leaving herwas the best thing I could have done for her, my kids, our families, and for me. After her first affair i never trusted her again, in some regard she gained most of my trust, only to break it 2 more times in the 5 years since it started.
Prepare yourelf for letting go and moving on, however equally prepare yourself for the slim chance he may repent and devote himself to rebuilding your marraige. Read the sticky Dave made.
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Johnee
Love is never wanting to lose faith, never wanting to give up, and never truly moving on. Love is knowing and praying in the deepest part of what's left of your heart that the other feels the same.
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