Re: Make love to your wife or masturbate ??? my husband prefers the later choice
Sounds like a good idea as a coping mechanism, short term, but self gratification is not a long term solution for a frustrating sexless marriage. This is an especially sad commentary, if both are meeting Their own needs, and are not only physically, but emotionally distant.
I'd do some confrontation on why there is no sex before the behavior becomes a set way of life. It is unfair that one person forces a sexless way of life on another. There is also the possibility that the one who has withdrawn, meets their needs with another person outside the marriage. One has to be a detective to get answers. Sometimes those answers mean the end of a marriage or the end of normal expectations.
Last edited by 1aokgal; 17th November 2013 at 08:51 AM.
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