Re: Happy but some advice needed
Make time just for the two of you alone and try and have a date night regularly and go out just you two. Have weekends away together, your children are old enough to be left alone now. There are many good marriage courses or marriage enrichment weekends that you can go on. I make sure that my husband and I do something like that every 2 or 3 years and they are helpful.
Sometimes work and children can get in the way of the marriage. Some people find that actually making a date/time for the physical side of marriage helps.
I find myself that having regular sex does keep us emotionally connected, and I am not surprised that you feel that emotional distance if you have let that side of things slip. It is a very important part of marriage, so try and make it a priority. Even a few marriage counselling sessions may help you to get back on track.
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