Re: Being the "bigger person"
Hi Fairly Newlywed,
If I'm honest, its the other way round in my home, but I put it down to the cycle. But I thought I'd mention it here because I find that for me, I would fold away because I had something troubling me that I really need to talk about that I dont know how to say it but all I really needed was someone to give me space, still be understanding and still smile...eventually i open up!!!!!
Why not give it a go... life is all about understanding, give and take, choose your attitude... when he folds up, just be soooooooooo understanding and loving, you know how he likes you, always have a smile ready for him or his fave meal... maybe when he sees that you're making such an effort, his periods will reduce to minutes :-) I think that is what being the bigger person is all about...
Will be pleased to find out how it goes...
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