You seem to know what your talking about. She has said that im trying to control her but to be honest i cant see it. I want uer to tell me how i am so i can change it but she wont.
I have no problem with her enjoying herself with her friends. Nothing makes me happier than seeing my wife happy.
As you say i must be insecure within myself and ill have to fix that somehow? And quality time i cant really give her right now. How can i figure out what one she needs from me?
Id love to tell you 100% that i know she wouldnt be faithfull to me i really would. I hope deep down in my yeart she would never do it to our family.
Your right about the immature part tho she is a little. But maybe just because shes missed out on things in the past i dont know. Again she wont talk. Im giving her space now like she asked by being in the bedroom while sye gets on with some coursework in the sitting room.
Im not sure about the love language part tho. I do buy her things quite often.
I asked her tonight if she was bored with her life or what and she said no. I really dont know what is lacking. Maybe its not the lacking but as you say the control?
I really apprieciate the help youve gave me. Im so glad i joined the forum now. Ill deffinatly be giving her more space for things she wants to do and ill try to stop asking her things thats wrong because thats really not helping things atall.
Thank you very much.