Plan needed
OK - I have been here many times before, but have decided to face my demons as it were, I have firm/good knowledge that my wife is having an affair, she did it last year and did'nt get caught and did it after 7 years of marriage and did get caught, fed up with this now, but I feel as thought I should have an exit plan, first concern is myself now, put her first for past 20 years time to think of me now, what should I be doing, financially, we have a mortgage, no kids by the way, they will be carrying on blissfully unaware with their relationship, so I can move about reasonably freely, do want to expose them by the way, not that it strips me of any dignity but just to prove that I'm smarter than him, since my wife said he was smarter than me, he comes accross as one of her friends by the way, the minute she made that statement got my back up, he is in a relaionship also, any help guidance please.
Thanks
Dell Boy
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