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I decided to confront T and ask her the truth and she confirmed she was married but was leaving her husband. So for a time I walked away and T as good as her word did leave her Husband and went to stay with a friend.
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But these are not very good words, are they?
She has cheated on a man to whom she is married and, for all you know, is the innocent sap in this. You have become the 'other man' though; and that role is far beneath you.
Do yourself a big favour - mix out of this woman's life now, otherwise you will have the next twenty years full of low-grade drama and wondering if she is telling lies to you about who she is seeing and where she actually is. After which, you will still have to junk it only you'll be years older and poorer.
I get to meet dozens of desirable, good looking, educated, sane and thoroughly wonderful young women. Every one of them is looking for the real thing; a partner who really means it and can make a go of a proper marriage. You could have your pick of them and a wonderful life, but you will have to say 'no' to this rubbish stuff first, then go out and look more purposefully for the person you want to spend your life with.
You deserve better.