Re: I'm struggling to see what the point of my OH is anymore
I agree with Raymond, you are running around her like a servant while she lies there and does nothing. You need to make her aware of how fed up you are, about how you will no longer put up with this situation, and unless she begins to pull her weight and do at least half of the house work and child care, you are leaving, and this time there will be no getting back together.
If my spouse has slept with loads of people there was no way that I would have stayed with them anyway, and I think its a shame that you didnt stay apart then. How can you trust her?
Write down clearly all the things that you want to change9Inclduding the no sex part), and go through them together. Work out who will do what jobs, take it in turns to bath the kids and put them to bed while the other one clears up and tidies the house. Sometimes people need the shock of thinking they will loose their spouses for them to act.
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