Re: help .advice please..im falling
Maybe if he is working long hours now he needs time to unwind? It depends if you are going out to work as well. If you are then he is doing too many hours at work perhaps. My wife didn't work and so she did do the cooking, shopping and looked after the children during the day, took them to school etc. I would take the children out a lot for fun and did baths and stuff but basically she did take care of the house apart from DIY gardening etc. I don't think there are any rules but if it comes down to "you ought to" then it can create a lot of marriage problems as it would be judging the other person. We are all different but I am sure there are better ways of doing it. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. We can enjoy the strengths and encourage the other areas but not through nagging I think.
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