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Old 27th April 2016, 03:18 PM   #1
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10 easy ways to break your husband

1) Refuse him affection. If simple avoidance doesn't work, you can say "break" as if you are
refereeing a wrestling match when he touches you.

2) Insist on controlling the finances. Use all the disposable income for yourself and your kids.
Better yet, get a credit card or two so you can put him in debt instead of simply exhausting
the current supply. Just wait until one comes in the mail, fill out the application, and
forge his name on the signature line. When he finds out you haven't made a payment on his
credit card in a year, and confronts you, just tell him "....the first thing wives learn to do is
sign their husband's name...".

3) Make him your "girlfriend". "Share" and boast the exaggerated details of your sexual activities
prior to your marriage. Especially the ones who were better looking and "bigger". After all,
"truth" is important in a marriage. Make sure he understands he's not "the one", he's "one more".

4) Don't forget to "thank" him for helping around the house, however, clearly point out how you would
have done it better, or how "men" just don't "get it". For variety, try asking him to do something
smack in the middle of his work day so that he has to "choose" you over his conscience about being
fair to his employer. If his conscience "wins", and he hasn't responded to your request in 2-3
minutes, immediately assume the task yourself loudly. Bang doors closed, drop heavy objects so
he will know that you're doing it yourself, and you're angry because he didn't do it soon enough for you.

5) Complain about your economic state. Example, "I hate this house", "I despise living here",
"WE need to have more property". Watch all the TV shows depicting 30-year-old yuppie couples with
million-dollar home budgets buying 3500-square-foot ocean-front houses. Call him away from
his work to "...come see this...", and tell him how much you love that place, and how you wish
you could afford one like that.

6) Find something wrong with whatever he does. Point out how other men have done similar tasks much
better than he did. You can make this far more emphatic if you choose a task in which you know
your husband has a limited skill-set, and another man who is gifted at it.

7) Watch movies, TV shows, and go to concerts and theaters where you can swoon like a teenager over
the male participants. This is especially effective if you have refused your husband sexually
for about 3 months prior to the event.

8) Point out how other men in different lines of work make more money than him, and how you wish he
were employed in a different capacity which is more compatible with the economic level you want
to live at. A prime opportunity is when your husband has lost his job, laid off, etc. Tell him
YOU can get him a job with one of your old boyfriends.

9) Make sure your husband thoroughly understands how you married him for his "qualities" and not
because you were sexually attracted to him. Precede your statement with how there were some
men in your past that you wanted "only for their body" but that he's not one of them.

10) Express your plans in abstract so that he must attempt to read your mind about his role in them.
Then, when he asks for clarification of his role, reply to him condescendingly with "isn't that what
I just said ??"....
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Old 27th April 2016, 07:27 PM   #2
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Re: 10 easy ways to break your husband

any woman who does all those is a cruel and mean person. I would have to wonder why a man would marry her in the first place.
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Old 27th April 2016, 07:41 PM   #3
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Re: 10 easy ways to break your husband

The guy incorrectly believes that his fiancee loves him, and therefore respects him. During the courtship, her behavior is respectful, in the majority. A "wolf in sheep's clothing". But following the marriage, and as time goes on, the truth comes out, that she truly does not respect him at all.
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Old 28th April 2016, 12:37 AM   #4
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Re: 10 easy ways to break your husband

how long did they date for and how much time did they spend together before marriage?
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Old 28th April 2016, 11:50 AM   #5
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Re: 10 easy ways to break your husband

About a year, and were together couple times a week. The "red flags" were observable to outsiders but not to the couple.
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Old 28th April 2016, 01:41 PM   #6
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OK so he ignored the friends and family who warned him.
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Old 1st May 2016, 11:21 AM   #7
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No. They didn't, they only gossiped to each other about it. However, after it failed, they all said "I told you so". But, they didn't. Real church people, brothers, sisters.

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Old 3rd May 2016, 11:52 AM   #8
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Re: 10 easy ways to break your husband

Sometimes love can be blind. We need to use our heads as well when we ask someone to marry us. Do you think there is a chance he is exaggerating her faults and that some of the faults might be in him?
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Old 7th May 2016, 10:54 AM   #9
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I think that she is very adept at hitting him where it hurts. I agree that his insecurities make him vulnerable, but don't know if it's a fault.
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Old 7th May 2016, 11:08 AM   #10
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Re: 10 easy ways to break your husband

No you are right. One shouldn't take advantage of the weak points of another, expecially so in marriage. That isn't love. Nevertheless the situation seems very one sided him the saint and her the sinner. It just makes one wonder if they have all the truth.
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