Make love to your wife or masturbate ??? my husband prefers the later choice

[Raymond]

I think the important thing is what is going on in your mind when you are doing it. If one is fantasising about other women then it can be a type of mental adultery in my view. Personally I cannot see the point if my wife is living with me. I have heard it said that it is ok if you have a higher sex drive than your wife. Mmm I think it is healthier for her to do something. Sex should always be a shared thing in my view. If one must do it then think about the wife, but then again what is the point of that if she is available.