Re: Need some advice
I do not think you have done anything wrong, Ayshren. Your marriage was rocky, so you split up - it is not clear whose decision that was, or if it was mutual, but there was no telling whether that split would be permanent or not. In any case, you would have been vulnerable at that time, and possibly confused.
Now, for some reason, you are back together again - so it would seem that there is hope, but your husband is now having trouble coming to terms with the consequence of the two of you splitting up before.
There is not, necessarily, anyone at fault here. The courses of your lives have come back together again and you should not be questioning the milestones that you passed on the way, but making the most of the second chance that you have both been given - those milestones may even have been instrumental in giving you that second chance. You are luckier than many.
You are very close to where you want to be, so start from here and make it better - do not revisit the events of the past, or they will become the mistakes of the future.
I wish you all the best.
DX
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