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Originally Posted by Raymond
I work and my wife is free
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I heard that. If I have a "grudge", it's just that. She gets to assign all her own time, set her own schedules, maintain her friendships, do what she wants, etc.
It's not that she "doesn't contribute", it's that she sets the rules about how, how much, and when she contributes, while my only option is 60 hours a week to make the ends meet....at a lifestyle standard which she constantly complains about.
If I "set boundaries", then it will be ME who pays the price of losing our assets. Besides, the only thing I would really like to happen is that we could have sex once a week and spend quality time together ( which means WITHOUT others ).
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I don't think it is a case of obeying her rules. Marriage shouldn't be like that.
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I agree that it "shouldn't be". However, that's the way it IS. I just choose the lesser of the evils.