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Old 16th March 2015, 10:19 PM   #4
N654563
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Re: scared

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hello notDoneyet i married him because he was so kind to me and I had no real confidence. We had children immediately and then he spent most of our lives away working. Ive become very confident and made a community with friends, worked, lived as a single parent. Now he's back, as sweet as ever but doesn't fit into my life and I can't find a flicker of attraction. Its so sad I don't know what to do, we're having counselling and Ive even considered hypnotherapy I'm so desperate to find him attractive.
It sounds like a desperately sad situation but by the sound of it you want to love him and want to find him attractive so that is positive. Keep talking to your councellor and each other. Have you told him how you feel?
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