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Old 24th November 2014, 12:56 PM   #2
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Re: Anxiety in the marriage

If you love each other then the problem clearly isnt with him. It may be that you are still slightly depressed. Have you been back to the doctor?
IT may be that you having an affair has made you discontent with normal real life and with your husband, so you must control any thoughts of the grass being greener, because they arent. Affairs can be attractive because they are NOT real life, they are fantasy pure and simple.
Give thanks for what you have, think of the many things you love about him. Be VERY thankful for his forgiveness and willingness to have you back, I doubt I would or could do that.

Please find a marriage weekend or weekly course to go on, and some marriage counselling may help. Also have regular date nights just the two of you. I feel that you are just not communicaiting well.
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