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Old 5th January 2007, 11:00 PM   #14
Annie2
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Red face Re: Living In A Sexless Marriage

Ok so Helen put that a lot better than I did!
Justme, I am not being judgemental (despite my rather blunt post). I think I do understand how it must feel when you want someone in a way that they don't reciprocate. However, I just feel you can not put all your eggs in different baskets (now there's a twist!). If you want to sort out your marriage (I think you do) then it can't be done while your heart is split all over the place. Firstly it's not fair on your husband, your 'cyber love' and you. How can you truely know how you really feel when you have feelings for more than one?
Having an affair is selfish because you are not sharing the responsibility of your marriage. You're not committed while you are emotionally committed elsewhere. You may believe there is no risk as it's 'only' a cyber affair but while your head is filled with another you are not fully giving your attention to your 'here and now' life, reality.
I wish you all the best and I truely am sorry if I sounded like a cow. I wish you nothing but happiness.
Annie
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