Re: Menopause advice needed!
Not exactly. I'd say the negative messages have become more frequent of late. It's all about our 'incompatibility'. She's much worse now with the menopause. But she will say that in the early years she just felt she had to keep quiet.
Certain complaints, though, are about more recent changes in my behaviour. In the beginning I would visit her USSR immigrant friends and husbands / families, but as the years went by I became disenchanted with most of them and the visits faded out. There are only two that I have nothing to do with, though. The truth is that I just don't like them, and I think I am entitled not to spend time with people I don't like. This makes us incompatible, of course.
We also had a fairly major blow-up last year when her daughter came over to stay with us for four months. I think that has had an impact.
Last edited by Bellx15; 29th December 2011 at 09:28 AM.
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