Sillyman

Lisa,

Hi. I'm good thanks - very well rested!

I think there's a lot going on, gone on, that's made the foundation of your relationship very weak.

At the moment you're not sure what's going on in his head - but naturally your reactions are driven by your emotions and what they are telling you that you want.

TBH I wonder if separation might be the best thing for you. This is doing neither of you any good - and you are wondering what he's up to all the time. You need to be clear of that worry to be able to decide what happens next.

I don't think you're doomed - but you maybe have to face the fact there is no going back.

SM