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Old 20th April 2011, 10:58 AM   #51
chosen
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Re: Make love to your wife or masturbate ??? my husband prefers the later choice

I Agree with Raymond.
The affair and now this, are deely hurtful to you. Has he properly repented for the affair and done all that he can to gain back your trust? MY family are full of people cheating, including my dad, and my husbands ex did this also and I have seen how destructive it is. Telling you the sex was amazing was also deeply hurtful, incredibly insensitive, and wrong.
I can also understand how hurtful it is also when you are there and he still masturbates.
Its like a rejection. His sexual thoughts and energies should be focused on you and you alone. I do think you need to talk to him about this.
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