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Old 1st May 2012, 07:11 PM   #64
Raymond
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Re: How do I trust him again?

Although we say the trust takes a long time to be built up I think it is important to have hope and not just put it aside as if it is never going to happen.

I think it is important that you wipe the slate clean. Real forgiveness says you don't owe me anymore and doesn't keep account. You will know if you are there or not.

He seems to be wanting to build up your trust of him again and that is good. I think you are both progressing in what you need to do. Him to restore the trust you to forgive, cease playback and not hold it over him forever.
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