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Old 23rd February 2016, 05:53 AM   #5
Sylvia Smith
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Re: Do I give up on my Marriage of 10yrs - together for 17yrs

The fact that you are being blamed for his drug use is not something to be okay with. At the end of the day, saving a marriage is the prerogative of both partners. And for this, he needs to own up and take accountability for his actions. Blaming you (his wife) will not cause any good.

Having said this, I do feel that your marriage can be revived. You both need to keep the anger and blame aside; focus on the feelings and consider what you both have together (a house, 2 lovely daughters, so many memories together).... Couples counseling will help you see the positive and enable you to keep all of this behind you and start afresh. They may even give you tips on other related matters that you can bring into the marriage later on (like sharing of fiances and bills - you should not be the one to handle all the bills)

I would seriously advice you both to seek professional help and give this marriage another chance. Get some help here 8 Easy Tips to Save your Marriage from Divorce.
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