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Originally Posted by Puglove
I still feel loyal to him..that I'm still married and I should be a food loyal wife and stay in etc.
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?????????? So going out to see a film with a girlfriend is being disloyal? Joining an evening class is being disloyal? How is that?
I am not suggesting that you find a boyfriend(!) just that you begin a life without him.
My daughter is going through her marriage ending as well.
She has church, does painting classes, belongs to a choir, has a midweek fellowship group, games night one day a week with friends, is studying to be a counsellor at college one day a week, as well as working 4 full days. She has a busy lively life with lots of friends.
That's what you now need to build up friends that you can see, clubs or hobbies, interests etc etc.
How about that divorce recovery workshop? I think that will help you a lot.