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Raymond · 18th September 2015, 09:40 AM

He obviously needs help but not from you as you are the victim. This man is toxic when he resorts to violence and threats. He obviously has a deep control thing going on. You can leave provided you see him every day. Really? This could get worse if he won't seek help. It must be like trying to get out of prison with the threats and such. It could end up a matter for the police with a restraining order and such. You do need a good plan of action. I think you should expose him to your parents so that they can help protect you when you leave. Being quite and secretive about these things will not really help you. He will prey on that.

18th September 2015, 09:40 AM	#6
Raymond Moderator Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6,409	Re: Courage to leave my 11 year marriage He obviously needs help but not from you as you are the victim. This man is toxic when he resorts to violence and threats. He obviously has a deep control thing going on. You can leave provided you see him every day. Really? This could get worse if he won't seek help. It must be like trying to get out of prison with the threats and such. It could end up a matter for the police with a restraining order and such. You do need a good plan of action. I think you should expose him to your parents so that they can help protect you when you leave. Being quite and secretive about these things will not really help you. He will prey on that.