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Old 17th September 2015, 09:47 PM   #4
Lindentree1
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Re: Courage to leave my 11 year marriage

Do you have any children?

If he is threatening physical harm and verbally abusing you it is not good for you to be around him. He is toxic to your well-being.

Yes, you should tell your family what has transpired. I second getting the restraining order if you can.

I wonder if you've been wanting to leave for a long time. I may be wrong, but it sounds like you perhaps cheated in the hope that he would leave you.

You've endured past physical abuse, verbal abuse, and fear. I don't think anyone would blame you if you could not endure anymore.

In my opinion if he is making threats physical abuse may not be far behind. You might consider leaving before he puts his hands on you again. This man could be angry and potentially dangerous. Not to scare you, but you must protect yourself. If you have a place to live you may not want to wait much longer to go there.
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