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Old 22nd February 2016, 11:26 AM   #2135
ralfgarnett
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Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

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They wouldnt section you for that. As LT says do you want to still be in the exact same place in another 18 months? If not then make a decision to do something different. You thrive by being with others, so do things that will mean you mix with others on a regular basis. I dont mean go to the pub more, alcohol wont help with all the medications you take.
Going to the pub is not top of my list for improving my life, I do meet the boys for a couple of beers 2 or 3 times a month but I have only drank real ale, bitter, mild, stout, or porter, but nothing strong like those horrible strong manufactured lagers, 20 years ago I could shift a few but my maximum these days is no more than 3 so it's not an issue for me, I have seen people go down that route and its not pretty to see someone become a drunken bar fly, but I am bigger, better, and prouder than that, I have this morning downloaded an A4 double sided list of things to do locally and will peruse those and enquire if I see somethings of interest.
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