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Old 20th January 2016, 05:49 PM   #4
chosen
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Re: Do I give up on my Marriage of 10yrs - together for 17yrs

The 2 things that concern me most are first the drug use, which is very serious, with the fact that he blamed you for that?!?!With that the financial aspect. How is it that you payed all the bills when he was able to saved 60 grand? Why werent you both paying bills? Its also alarming that he has now wasted all that money on drugs and gambling.
The only way I can see it working is if you both agree to long term marriage counselling, living apart while you do that, and see how things go. I would certainly be very wary to trust him with any money for a long time.
Until takes responsibility for his very bad decisions, I cant see how it will work. I also think he needs to cut off contact with his brothers who are clearly a very bad influence.
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