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Old 3rd February 2012, 11:31 AM   #25
freegirl
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Re: Should I say yes?

What I meant by difference in spirituality was that the man I was dating belonged to a different religion from mine. I respect all religions but if I were to marry someone whom I didn't share a common religion with what would our children follow...would they be half of mine and half of his? Religion is very important part of my life and I wouldn't want to compromise on it. He was willing to continue dating indefinitely without the commitment of marriage, however that wasn't something I was comfortable with.

How do you know when you love someone? Do you just get a strong desire to be with them. How would you differentiate that from lust? With this older man I can talk to him for hours but honestly I don't feel any 'sparks.' I actually sometimes find it difficult to totally open up to him when he asks me personal questions. Although that might in part be due to me being cautious. Do 'sparks' take so much time to develop or would you with just a few dates?
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