I dont think the time apart is going to make her love you again - you not being a part of her life on a daily basis will not correct where you both failed
She isn't going to wake up one day and think i want the person back who failed to meet my needs
If you want her back you need to do some serious thinking and accept that you can make changes and then prove to her that you will do anything it takes to make the relationship work
Its not going to do it on its own is it ?
Ive read online somewhere about a couple who went through this and it gave him the motivation to change and now they are both happier than ever
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getting back together with my wife is only what I am hoping will happen. She is still of the opinion that it is permanent.
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Im hoping to win the lottery but its not going to happen if i dont get off my arse and buy the ticket ?
You need to build up your confidence - get some ammo - buy these two books and then go back and show her you mean business
'Self Matters'
'Rescue Relationship' by Phil Mcgraw