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Old 7th November 2004, 03:10 AM   #28
Lonely In Chicago
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

My husband has been addicted to porn since before we were married 9 years ago. Of course I didn't know he had a problem although looking back now I realize that he couldn't ejaculate about half the time we had sex. He would just tell me it was nothing and that he was just under too much stress at work. The real problems started after we had been married only a few months. Sex went from once or twice a week to once a month and then after the first year we would go 3 or 4 months without sex. Apparently men addicted to porn and masturbation get themselves conditioned to only be able to have an orgasm with a fantasy women and not a real person. We are now going to marital therapy but it has been almost a year since we made love and I am about ready to give up and resign myself to a sexless marriage. It's sad for me because I know I will never be perfect like those girls in the pornos.
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