Yes she thinks I hacked her phone - I have not revealed my source.
I was planning to visit this afternoon while my wife is there (hospital). Her brother may be there. I have not seen him since she told him she met somebody and we are trying to save our marriage.
But yesterday she had a row with me, as she discovered a pen that records video/sound in her bedroom. She told me this was going one step to far and that she has feelings too. I couldn't hack this and replied that she had completely ignored my feelings for 18 fecking months!! It wasn't a good night.
She moved into a separate bedroom. So I am at a bit of a low ebb this morning.