[Shasha]

Hi Raymond,
The situation has not improved greatly, as my husband still tends to remain passive. However, what has changed tremendously, is my action or reaction to his behaviour and attitude and what is happening, generally in the home. I respect him and still love him. Intimacy-wise, there is a lot of work to be done.
As I have mentioned before, my h is a recluse and he tends to shut himself away in the bedroom, most of the time.
However he is beginning to join me and our son, occasionally in the living room. We keep the communication open and he is more willing to participate in family devotions and discussions.
On a whole, the atmosphere in the home is one of peace,than anything else and that's what's important in a marriage, I suppose.
Take care.
S